June 24, 2004
YO NO VOY - I WON'T GO
When my parents left Cuba in the late sixties, they were resigned to the fact that they would probably never set foot on the island ever again. They would never see their home again, or their town. They would never again stroll the parks where they courted in their youth. They prayed that they wouldn't be separated from their families for ever, yet knew that chances were they would never see some of them again. Their loved one's voices had to be locked in memory because exiling would take them a world away.
For years after they arrived in the US they knew little, if anything, about the lives of the families left behind. Phone calls were non-existent, letters sent either never arrived or were censored by Castro government officials. It was the sad reality of the Cuban diaspora.
Back then Castro had the economic support of the Soviets. His regime didn't need US dollars to keep its economy going. So once you exiled, once you left Cuba, that was it. You were no longer Cuban. You were a Gusano. A traitor to la Revolucion. Once you left, you were gone, and Fidel Castro did not allow you back, under any circumstances.
We were real, honest to goodness political refugees. Exiles.
Today's Cuban "exile" really isn't an exile. Exile means banishment, and today's Cubans that have come to the States are not banished from Cuba. On the contrary, they are welcome to visit the island. Encouraged even. It's not just that their families need them, the government can't survive without them. That's why Castro wants them to come back, again and again and again.
There has been quite a lot of commentary and news recently regarding the Bush administration's tightening of restrictions against the island. Critics say Bush is pandering to the Cuban-American vote in Florida. Other critics say the restrictions are dividing the Cuban community and families. Either of these critiques may be true. To which I submit a hardy SO WHAT?
Every four years, every presidential candidate comes to South Florida with a mouthful of promises and Viva Cuba Libres! Every single president since Kennedy has courted the Cuban-American vote. It's nothing new. They come down, tell us they are going to fight to take down Castro, then when elected shuffle some papers around and make little adjustments to their Cuban foreign policy. It's automatic. Move along folks, nothing to see here.
I do however, take exception to certain Cuban-Americans or Cuban "exiles" criticizing the new restrictions. Statements like: "Bush's priority should first of all be to not keep Cuban families apart" are ridiculous to me. As if now it's Bush's fault that they left the island, sought political asylum, and can't see their families agian. Guess what? That's what being a political exile is. That is the hard reality of it.
If you could not have lived without your family you should not have left in the first place.
Every Cuban that exiled to the US up until the '80's knew this and accepted it. Freedom isn't free. You need to earn it. When you left Cuba the only hope of ever seeing the island again was when Castro's regime was gone. History. The US government didn't make you leave Cuba, the US government didnt make you leave your family behind. There's only two people responsible for that, you and Fidel Castro. Castro made the decision to screw your life up, you made the decision not to accept it so you left. It's that simple.
This new generation of Cuban refugees are a product of Castro's revolutionary ideology. Most are completely apolitical. They could care less who is Governor, Senator or President. Unless, of course, the Governor or Senator or President impedes their ability to forward dollars to their family in Cuba or to visit their family in Cuba. Then, all hell breaks loose.
And I feel for these people. I know what it's like to leave family behind. I know what it's like to have aunts and uncles die before ever even meeting them as an adult. I am a Cuban exile. I came here not to make money but to be a free human being. My family left Cuba when I was four years old and there is not a day that goes by where I don't imagine what my life would have been had my family been able to stay.
My aunt, one of the first women to carry me as a baby died before I could ever meet her. She was my father's sister. She died in the late seventies. My father lived with the fact that for the last ten years or so of her life, he was not there. He was not able to be a part of her life. I remember the day she died even though I was a child because I had never seen my father cry. I had never seen his spirit broken. I had never seen him on his knees.
Yet however painful it was, he knew he had done the right thing. He knew that in order to save his family he would have to sacrifice.
Sacrifice.
That is the price of freedom.
Crossposted at the Command Post.
Posted by Val Prieto at June 24, 2004 09:06 AM
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Comments
Your apologetics on the Cuban condition are quite sound and that was a real eye opener on the sacrifices many have made. You're certainly right...supporting Cuba, through money and visits, only helps support Castro. It does not help the Cuban people in the long run.
It's a sad situation, but Castro is to blame, not Bush. Why is it that people keep forgetting that?
And lets not EVEN mention Jimmy Carter. What a rube.
Posted by: WB at June 24, 2004 10:17 AM
I totally agree with you. It's a choice you make. The American government didn't make you come over here in the first place.
Being an american-born child of cuban exile parents, I've grown up knowing i have a grandmother, aunts, uncles, and cousins in Cuba. Some have made their way over here, and some have chosen to stay with their wives, kids, parents, whatever over there.
Thanks for putting that side out there. I'm so tired of hearing people here in Miami whining and blaming our government for things for which it's not responsible. I love my roots, and my people, and my heritage, but I'm not about to get illogical about it, the way some members of my community expect everyone with even one ounce of Cuban blood in their veins to do.
Posted by: Ivonne at June 24, 2004 10:34 AM
"I came here not to make money but to be a free human being"
Nice
Posted by: justin at June 24, 2004 11:48 AM
Well said.
Posted by: j.scott barnard at June 24, 2004 02:04 PM
The concept of sacrifice for freedom is so foreign in our society now that I am beginning to be really concerned. I am glad that you recognize that every good thing costs - often dearly. I hope that as a people we will remember that before it is too late.
Posted by: JED at June 24, 2004 02:53 PM
How about the fact that the Bush Administration has made $780 million in direct sales to castro?
They call it humanitarian. How many people out there believe that the Cuban people are eating perdu chicken and land-o-lakes butter. Talk about being naive. Castro is doing what all dictators do with US humanitarian aid, He's selling it on the open market, and putting the profits right into his pocket. Maybe this is what you mean with the Price of freedom.
Madtom
Posted by: tom at June 24, 2004 03:23 PM
Tom,
I dont know if its the actual Bush administration that made those deals, however, there are plenty of states, 36 I believe, that are presently dealing with or preparing to deal with Castro's government. I have blogged about this previously. Most of the traded food stuffs once in Cuba goes to the tourist hotels, and whatever is in excess undoubtedly ends up mostly in the black market.
the Cuban people get fucked by Fidel. As usual.
Posted by: Val Prieto at June 24, 2004 03:37 PM
Tom: Is that an actual statement of fact? I notice that it is presented in the form of a question. Please quantify and qualify your resources. Please be specific as to names, dates, etc. I am interested in the teaser and see the hook, but without something,(other than you say it's so, I mean), you get a no sale, with me.(Not that that is important).
Posted by: Bill at June 24, 2004 04:07 PM
Bill:
http://www.ustreas.gov/offices/eotffc/ofac/sanctions/cuba.txt
quote from the above
"the Commerce Department authorizes the sale and
export or re-export of medicine and medical supplies, food and
agricultural commodities to Cuba."
Try a search on US sales to Cuba
Madtom
Posted by: tom at June 24, 2004 04:55 PM
Posted by: tom at June 24, 2004 05:15 PM
http://www.cnn.com/2003/WORLD/americas/11/02/cuba.usa.trade.reut/
From the above
"Cuba to date has purchased and contracted for about $500 million in food products, including shipping costs, Pedro Alvarez, Chairman of state food-importer Alimport, said.
"We plan to sign $100 million in contracts at the fair, around half with the Americans," Alvarez told Reuters."
Madtom
Posted by: tom at June 24, 2004 05:23 PM
Thanks for this Val. I excerpted it for the blog. You add perspective to the whole issue.
Posted by: Helen at June 24, 2004 08:39 PM
My grandfather left Spain, and never returned, for political reasons. He too was an exile.
Thank you for this post.
Posted by: Fausta at June 25, 2004 08:58 AM
Val: "I don't know if its the actual Bush administration
Well Val what other administration can it be, The Shadow government?
Val: "there are plenty of states, 36 I believe,
You know that the sates don't do foreign policy, "the administration" makes all foreign policy decision.
The question stands why would the Administration directly support the regime and at the same time restrict the people to people contact that helps to take back some power from the state run institutions.
I fear that the recent moves by this administration are purely political and designed to garner votes from the community.
Once the election is over the Cuban issues will be put bake in there box and the plight of the people forgotten
"the Cuban people get fucked by Fidel. As usual
Not just by Fidel.
Madtom
Posted by: tom at June 25, 2004 08:30 PM
Tom,
Please, seriously, look it up. each state has its own representatives.
You seriously need to get a grip on reality. Stating that the US screws the people of Cuba is absurd. So $780 million goes to Cuba from the US government, big deal. Lift the embargo and all the other millions will go to fidel as well.
Por favor mi hermano, dejate de hablar mierda. Si no te gusta Bush es una cosa, pero no le heches el muerto a el.
There's only one man responsible and one ideology responsible for the shit in Cuba.
Tu eres Pionero?
Posted by: Val Prieto at June 25, 2004 10:04 PM
Val,
Yes each state has it's own representatives, and those representatives only look out for the interest of the people of each state as it should be. The questions of trade with Cuba are a federal issue.
Don't put words in my mouth, You said that $780 mil was screwing Cubans not me. I said that allowing direct sales to the regime and _at the same time_ restricting people to people contact was going to screw the Cubans. the two situation are not the same one give benefits to both the people and the government, the other only benefits the government with no relief at all for the people.
I am not blaming the US for the problems in Cuba. I am aware that the US Has intervened in Cuba in the past, nor do I believe that it is the responsibility of the US to intervene now. It's our, the Cubans peoples responsibility.
I just feel that my ability to help change is being curtailed.
Madtom
Posted by: tom at June 25, 2004 10:42 PM
Tom,
I am not going to argue with you anyomre. You have absolutely no idea what the hell you are talking about. It friday, its late, and I have better things to do than try to teach you common sense.
No jodas mas asere, me tienes los huevos inchados ya.
Posted by: Val Prieto at June 26, 2004 12:08 AM
Val,
I think is early Saturday, but what could be more important that to bring freedom to the homeland?
Madtom
Posted by: tom at June 26, 2004 01:06 AM
Val - Not one penny to Castro! Some of us are still holding the line. Castro doesn't use the money sent back, collected as payments for "relatives to visit us in the United States," or even tourist dollars to help the Cuban people. Like Saddam Hussein and other dictators before and after him, he lines pockets and fills his Swiss Bank Accounts. No, not one penny. It may seem cruel, but those that contribute are not only lining his pocket, but propping up the government and setting up the next generation of dictators.
Posted by: Eleanor at July 1, 2004 04:29 AM
Not one penny to Castro!
Eleanor
I wish it were true, and I agree completely with your statements. But it looks like the current situation is quit the reverse. It's all pennies to Castro. As he is the direct beneficiary of all direct sales to the island.
Madtom
Posted by: tom at July 2, 2004 03:28 PM


