November 11, 2004

Thank You, Veterans

Every neighborhood has a house that kids are afraid of. There's always one property in particular that little kid rumors are bandied about like candy. The woman that lives in that house is a witch! The last little kid that went into Mr. So and So's yard never came out! I've seen dead animals in their yard! In my old neighborhood it was the house on the corner across the street from my house. The house with the one-legged man.

None of us kids really knew why we were afraid of the house with the one legged man. The rumors just said that he was dangerous even though the house always looked pristine. It certainly didnt look haunted or anything like that. It was always well maintained. But the one-legged man was a mystery to us.

He rarely came out of the house and when he did, the location of the house and the landscaping around it always made it look like some shadowy excursion was taking place. We would ride our bikes on the opposite side of the street when passing the place and never, ever, took cover under the shade of the three huge black olive trees he had along the side of the yard. That house and yard were off limits according to every single kid in the neighborhood.

The specualtion about the man and his missing leg was rampant among us. He lost his leg after that killing spree he went on. No, it was when he was chopping up that last little kid that went into his yard that the chainsaw slipped and took his leg right off! Not once, in the years that he lived in that house did we ever go Trick or Treating at that house. We were terrified of razor blades in apples and poison in the candy. We were kids, we didnt know any better.

I must have been about 14 or so when the one-legged man sold the haunted house and moved away. I remember the big moving truck in front of his house and all the old furniture they had been loading into it all day. Everything looked like antiques. He was there directing the moving men while walking around on his prosthetic leg and occassionaly pointing to something or other with one of his crutches. I remember feeling relieved, now we could poach the fruit from the trees and ride our bikes close to that yard and sit under the black olives eating his mangos.

There was one thing about the house that always struck me as odd. Every holiday it flew a big American flag. Fourth of July's, Memorial days, President's days. I always found it kind of odd that a haunted house should fly the flag like that. Witches and warlocks and chain saw wielding mass murderers weren't supposed to be patriotic.

That day he was moving, as I sat out in the porch with my friends, the last direction he gave to the movers was to take down his flag. And they did and when they were about to roll it up around the flagpole to toss it in the moving van the one-legged man almost went into a frenzy. He yelled at the mover and hobbled up to him and swiped the flag and pole away from him and then carefully removed it from the pole. He threw the pole in the moving truck and stood there, in front of his house, and neatly folded his flag.

The one-legged man tucked the folded flag under his arm, ambled around the house and yard for one last look then got in his station wagon and drove away.

A few minutes after he'd gone, we hopped on our bikes and went straight to that property. We climbed the fence, knocked down a few avocadoes and looked into every one of the windows. There was nothing particularly scary about the inside of the home. It just looked like any other old house to me. It was right then and there that I knew we had been fools. There had never been anything dangerous about the old one-legged man. He was just an old one-legged man. I felt bad we had ignored him. I felt bad we had never Trick or Treated at his house. For all I knew that man had tons and tons of candy waiting for us on Halloween and noone ever showed. How sad, I thought.

When I was about 20 or so, I was coming out of a supermarket and as I turned to head towards my car there heading right for me was a familiar figure with one leg and crutches. It was the old one-legged man! The one we'd been scared of all our childhood days. The one I saw move away with his flag under his arm. I stopped in front of him and he looked up at me. He had the kindest eyes I'd ever seen in my life.

"Excuse me, sir," I said. "Did you used to live in Grapeland Heights? Off of 19th?"

His blue eyes sparkled. He had recognized me. "Are you the boy that lived in that pretty house across the street?"

"Yessir. That's me."

"All grown up now, huh?"

We chit chatted for a few seconds about the old neighborhood and how us kids were scared of him because we thought he was a bogeyman and he laughed. I felt I needed to make it up to him so I offered to help him with his groceries and he thanked me, said that wasn't necessary. I insisted.

I pushed the grocery cart for him that day at the store while he told me about his life. He'd lost a son in Vietnam. His wife had passed just before I had moved into the neighborhood. He had lost his leg to a mortar attack in Korea. He was an honest to goodness decorated war hero. A Veteran of the United States Army.

We said our goodbyes in the parking lot of the supermarket. I helped him get into his car and stood there as he drove away. I could have learned so much from that man during my childhood. Had I just taken the time and had the courage to one day knock on his door and offer to mow his lawn or wash his car I would have made friends with a good man, a war hero. Now, I cant even remember his name.

I woke up early this morning, showered, threw on my clothes and right before I left my house, I unfolded my flag, clipped it to the pole, and hoisted it in his honor. For the one-legged Veteran I lived across the street from all those years and yet knew for only a few moments.

I will never forget him.

I never got to thank him for giving what he gave so that I may ride bike freely about his neighborhood. I never got to thank him for giving his son and his leg for this country that has given me everything.

My flag flies for him today, an American Veteran, and for every single one of his brothers and sisters in arms. Thank you, Veterans, for your service and your sacrifice.

Posted by Val Prieto at November 11, 2004 08:25 AM



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Comments

Val - well said. I love to read your writing and I knew there would be a great Veteran's Day post waiting for me here. Thank you.

Posted by: VHMPrincess at November 11, 2004 08:35 AM

Thanks for this entry, Val. I join you in saluting our nation's veterans!

Posted by: AWG at November 11, 2004 09:30 AM

Beautiful!
Thank you to all those that serve and have served our country so that we may enjoy this freedom granted to us.

Posted by: Amanda at November 11, 2004 09:51 AM

Val, I can always count on you for a beautiful story that brings tears. Thank you for this one honoring our veterns.

Posted by: Kathleen at November 11, 2004 12:49 PM

Thank you.

Posted by: j.scott barnard at November 11, 2004 01:17 PM

THANK YOU...Not only a SUPERB story but one that NEEDS to be shared with all Americans. You'll no doubt notice from the web address we are a group of assists veterans in Montana. WE thank you!!!!

Posted by: mike erickson at November 11, 2004 02:48 PM

Thanks for the great story. Thank you Veterans. Freedom isn't free.

Posted by: polsongrizfan at November 11, 2004 04:05 PM

Well spoken, Val. Thank you for those powerful words.

Posted by: Hank at November 11, 2004 05:10 PM

Awesome story Val, as usual.... I'd take a bet that there are probably thousands of one-legged war-hero scary-guy-at-the-end-of-the-block stories out there. Our nation is simply full of hero's. And that's one of the things that makes this day so special.

Thanks again Val, great story..

Posted by: Tman at November 11, 2004 06:01 PM

Val, your reading is a National Treasure. Oh look, I have something in my eye and now it's all wet...

--TwoDragons

Posted by: Denita TwoDragons at November 11, 2004 06:54 PM

Wow, that was beautiful!

Posted by: Caoilfhionn at November 11, 2004 08:01 PM

Tears fall from my chin onto my shirt as I type this. I'm wiping my nose as if I am a little child.

May God keep the brave, and teach the unworthy ones like me.

Posted by: Neuroto at November 12, 2004 05:10 AM

Wow, that was excellent. A lot of Veterans are the forgotten ones. We all just melt into the masses and forgotten. Stories like this are so necessary to keep those memories alive. God Bless our Veterans

Posted by: GrizzlyEdd at November 12, 2004 12:54 PM

Dude, you made me mist up. That was a beautiful tribute. God bless America.

Posted by: George L. Moneo at November 12, 2004 06:47 PM

I defy anyone to read this without tearing up. This needs to be saved and distributed and spread everywhere.

Posted by: A.M. Mora y Leon at November 13, 2004 04:33 PM

Excellent.

Posted by: Jonathan at November 13, 2004 05:43 PM

Just beautiful. We had a veteran in our town when I was growing up who had a speech impediment. Most of the kids thought he was wierd even though he gave everyone a "thumbs up" and a friendly hello. Most of the kids in town thought he was retarded. I remember asking my Mom about him and she said he was shellshocked.

Thankfully during a two week visit after the death of my parents I was priviledged to have a lenghthy, intelligent and lovely conversation with possibly a very lonely American hero.

Posted by: Margaret at November 14, 2004 08:50 PM

THE COST OF THE WAR

represents the budget needed to fully fund global anti-hunger efforts for 5 yrs!

from http://costofwar.com

"Every gun that is made, every warship launched, every rocket fired, signifies
in the final sense a theft from those who hunger and are not fed, those who are
cold and are not clothed."
Republican President Dwight D. Eisenhower

Posted by: bin at November 17, 2004 10:28 AM